{"id":49911,"date":"2015-06-23T22:00:15","date_gmt":"2015-06-23T17:00:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/?p=49911"},"modified":"2023-01-31T21:36:20","modified_gmt":"2023-01-31T21:36:20","slug":"im-now-a-father-of-a-daughter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/2015\/06\/23\/im-now-a-father-of-a-daughter\/","title":{"rendered":"I&#8217;m now a Father of a daughter"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-baby.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"349\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-baby.jpg?resize=620%2C349&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"zair-baby\" class=\"wp-image-49916\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-baby.jpg?resize=620%2C349&amp;ssl=1 620w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-baby.jpg?resize=500%2C281&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-baby.jpg?resize=622%2C350&amp;ssl=1 622w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-baby.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Hello Friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Today, by the grace of Almighty ALLAH I became father of a daughter in this holy month of Ramzan and I can&#8217;t describe how amazing this feeling is to become a dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>I&#8217;m writing this blog specially for my first daughter who is now just 36 hours old and I believe, few years from now when she is able to read and understand, she might get a chance to read this blog post and see what my feelings are for her from the moment I saw her for the first time.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>June 23rd, 2015<\/strong> &#8211; The day start at 10 o&#8217;clock in the morning. I went to AKUH hospital where&nbsp;my beautiful wife, my better half was admitted and she was about to enter the Surgical Area which is restricted to patient and doctors. I met her there&nbsp;and she said she will call me to recovery room where only husband could come in to meet their wife before they move them&nbsp;to OT. I sat on the bench outside Surgical Area and waited if someone come out and call my name to meet my wife as she said to me&nbsp;that&nbsp;she will call me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was sitting there with my Mother-in-law, sister and bhabi. They were all talking to each other but my focus was completely on to that locked door. I started reciting all the Quran Surah and Duas I know&nbsp;and prayed to God that everything goes well. The guard came and said that only one person could stay&nbsp;here and everybody else need to go back to the room and wait there for the news. I asked&nbsp;everyone to go and wait in the room and I will call them once I hear anything. It was a complete disconnect with my wife, I didn&#8217;t know what she is going through on the other side of the door. I kept on waiting anxiously&nbsp;that someone might come out and call me in to meet my wife but no one came. Around 11:30, my wife&#8217;s elder sister and her husband came there to take me back to the room and not to sit here alone but I refused to go back and they also sat with me on that bench. They started talking about random stuff to divert my mind as I was worried but all I could see&nbsp;was that locked door.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Finally at 12:30 pm, nurse came out and called me. I stood&nbsp;up and ran towards that door and I thought that she will take me to the recovery room but she said &#8220;Congratulations sir, please wait here&nbsp;I&#8217;m bringing your child&#8221;. This was the moment when my legs and arms started shaking, the tears coming out from&nbsp;my eyes and then I saw the nurse coming back with a trolley in which my baby was wrapped in a green cloth. I couldn&#8217;t see anything as my baby was completely covered until I slightly removed the cloth and I saw my baby for the first time and the nurse said, it&#8217;s a girl.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>I didn&#8217;t know that this kind of feeling existed in me before until I saw you for the first time. It was full of emotions, love and happiness. I couldn&#8217;t hold back my tears and suddenly I started missing my wife to share this great&nbsp;moment of my life with. I missed my Mom and Dad alot at that time. I took your&nbsp;first picture and I asked the nurse about your mom&#8217;s health. Alhumdulillah, everything went normal.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-daughter1.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"620\" height=\"349\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-daughter1.jpg?resize=620%2C349&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"zair-daughter1\" class=\"wp-image-49915\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-daughter1.jpg?resize=620%2C349&amp;ssl=1 620w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-daughter1.jpg?resize=500%2C281&amp;ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-daughter1.jpg?resize=622%2C350&amp;ssl=1 622w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zairabbas.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/zair-daughter1.jpg?w=720&amp;ssl=1 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>To my daughter:<\/strong> I don&#8217;t know how our father-daughter relationship goes. I don&#8217;t know if I could be that&nbsp;expressive about my feelings for you when you grow up&nbsp;but I just wanted to tell you that&nbsp;I unconditionally Love You&nbsp;from the moment I saw you for the first time and this will remain forever. I will try my best to become a good and supportive father and full-fill your needs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>To my wife:<\/strong>&nbsp;On my this birthday in April, you didn&#8217;t gave me any gift and I also didn&#8217;t asked for anything as we both know that few months later you will give me the greatest&nbsp;gift of my life in form of our first daughter. I just wanted to thank you for that and you know that I love you so much. 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